I think it is fair to say that in most relationships, couples often ask themselves, where is the passion in our relationship? What went wrong? When we first met we couldn’t get enough of each other and now, a few years down the line, the very spark that attracted us is no longer there.
Passion in a relationship is often lost due to our own doing. As the relationship grows we become content, our focus shifts to our jobs, the kids, paying bills, planning the next holiday, social gathering etc, and in the back of your mind we yearn for that attraction between you and your partner to return but we always put it on the back burner and believe it will sort itself out.
Passion in a relationship is like 安全套網購 anything else in our lives. It needs work. It requires commitment and attention in order for it to stay alive. Now, by reading this, I’m not implying that you should run out there and grab the first sex toy that comes to mind and introduce it into your relationship. There are many other things to consider first, such as your honesty and openness towards each other, how safe and how vulnerable you feel. Do you and your partner still communicate intimately and do you feel comfortable in doing so.
However, if you can answer yes to these issues then why not consider bringing a few sex toys into the bedroom. It will definitely spice things up a little! It can help you get that passion back in your relationship. Many men may not at first feel too comfortable with the idea as they may feel like they are being replaced by something with batteries but if the sex toy is introduced as a passion enhancer where both you and your partner can participate then the experience can be mind-blowing. It will make you want more.
Today’s sex toys are so advanced (and may I add, elegant and good-looking) that when used many of them bring pleasure to both you and your partner. Toys such as the We-Vibe and LELO’s Tiani and Oden range are designed to be enjoyed by both partners. These toys can definitely bring back the passion in a relationship.
As a last note, intimacy is there to be enjoyed and these moments should be embraced. Passion in a relationship should never become a chore. After all, if it’s a chore then it definitely cannot be called passion.